Posted by admin on February 22, 2011
Part of giving is a good listener. This does not mean pity party or a whimper or complain session. It speaks loud and not just addressing the situation to resolve, but also the possible solutions. Discuss the positive and negative of each of solutions that help clarify the choice of animal action.
In many cases it is easier to hand money to a child or even an employee instead of developing their habit of thinking through a problem and creating the best possible solution.
Giving our time and focused attention is sometimes one of the sweetest and most precious gifts we ever give. A small child who really wants to show you a bird’s nest, he believes he has found something very interesting, due in a few minutes of our time. While the birds nest is certainly not on your priority list right now, the minutes will mean much for the child for the next few years because it is an example of the fact that real care about him and his interests.
Providing time to an older child or even an adult to help them develop the habit of analyzing a problem and determine the best solution is to form a pattern that will help them to anything they do for the rest of their lives to do.
Posted by admin on February 19, 2011
Admittedly, that if you go to the top, the feeling of satisfaction will be achieved. Although aware of the performance can be tempted to feel comfortable, but it is recommended to have a higher purpose for this is the true measure of success.
Some people measure success as a great life has a big house, fancy cars, expensive holidays and a lot of money. Is this the only way we can measure success? I beg differ.
Take the example of people who really live from hand to mouth. When he had to save a little money for several years and bought the first car, we will not see this as a success. I believe this is a success that must be copied to save the discipline, ability to focus on the objectives and the actual implementation of the plan.
To measure success, should the status of a person to consider the performance and the ability to set goals. For this reason, a man a man who is born to an affluent family and makes no effort to be rich but has a lot of wealth should not be termed as successful.
Having wealth and other material things in life do not necessarily reflect the success. Other ways can contribute to society and have a sense of satisfaction. This includes helping those less fortunate and expertise or skills to volunteer impact in the lives of people.
Posted by admin on February 9, 2011
Imagine you out with your partner go to one country. You both stopped for a rest and they rely on a port in admiration for the eye. Moreover, ask a stranger approach than you would think him a favor do not. He asks you to climb over the fence; it is about the field and met him at the gate on the other side of the field
You are a goal oriented individual and your natural tendency is to stride across the field to the gate on the other side as soon as possible. Half way into the field, your back and your partner will see weakness on the side of the field to watch a big tree. They then walk to the other side of the field to look at a pond. You feel excited. Why is she walking around the field? Did you understand that both had at the gate on the other side? You see them on the road away from the gate and go on to talk with a farmer who works in the following field. You already at the gate for a couple of times and could not believe that your partner is not yet arrive. Eventually your partner and the stranger asked you to walk across the line in your area. You feel the job much better than your partner completed does. You arrived at the port in one quarter of the time it took.
The stranger then explains to you both that he is a property developer and is thinking of buying the field. You really can tell a lot. You tell him of the field and look clean and level access seems OK. Your partner could say much more. The big tree on the side of the field seems very old and will almost certainly fund a preservation order on it. The land surrounding the pond was very muddy. Drainage would be priceless. Your partner also explained that when she spoke and for the farmer, said he had the field in his family for generations and had a special place for him. He would not let it go cheaper. So whose approach to the job was right? Sometimes it is best to take the direct route to get there fast, sometimes it is better to get around, take your time and find roadside. There are no right and wrong, only different.
Our attitudes to life, our deep-seated feelings, standards and prejudices, are built up gradually over our lives. We have slowly formed a blue print, a pattern of how we think the world should be. We think that how we see the world, our values, the right people.
We each live unique lives. Each of us makes our own blueprint. We are all different. We may have much in common with many people, but there are differences. Once we begin to understand that there is never anyone exactly like us, we are more likely to understand others and got them better. Remember, others are just as convinced as you that their way of life is the right one.
It is the ability to recognize the true value of your own personality and the real value of other human personality, a central place to have the skills to build good relationships with others. Therefore, building relationships is all about celebrating the differences in people. It is not a negative thing. Is that not a negative thing? It is not about being critical of the differences. It’s about the value of the differences, building teams that make the majority of people skills, and not try to change, so that as we are.
Recognize that the strength in people and their strengths to use. What a boring world would it be if we all the same! The starting point you know yourself first. If Big Book say keep the plank from your own eye before you try to remove that splinter group from the waters around Antarctica!