Sometimes two people have become so angry at each other, or both feel hurt. Feelings of pain can be caused by a slip of the tongue, misunderstanding, or an act committed in bad judgments. Sometimes feelings are hurt deliberately in a fit of anger and grief later.
If we are to blame, we regret what we said the instant you leave nasty comments in our mouth. You may want to apologize immediately, but some of us find very difficult to apologize for something, almost impossible.
Sometimes the reason we do not apologize because we believe that people really deserve our anger outbursts. Sometimes the reason we do not apologize because we did not know that we hurt others. And sometimes we apologize profusely, but not seriously.
When you sincerely apologize to friends, it means that you are sorry for causing emotional pain to others, and who wants to work on repairing the friendship.
If you have said or done something to hurt your friend or spouse, it is important to recognize the painful emotions that you love someone. You can say something like, “I’m sorry you feel hurt because of what I said I did not mean to hurt you let’s talk about what happened …”
In some relationships, hurt feelings and the problem was never addressed. Instead, get “swept under the rug.” This relationship may seem polite on the surface and may even live long, but really are not very intimate. There is a deep division between two people without the ability to be honest.
If one or both of you are very angry with another, delaying the discussion of the depth to which need to be calm and sensible? But apologize to your sincere friend, as soon as possible.
After an apology for an incident in particular has been extended and accepted, not old battles over and over again the next time you have a conflict. Take care of each incident as it arises and not hate old nurse.